what to expect
I seek clients who are considerate, respectful and appear to have put a little thought to who they are meeting. Entitlement is a huge turn off. I like to show up to meet you feeling present and relaxed, and I've found a little careful inquiry into our compatibility beforehand aids this considerably. I want to meet people who are seeking a grown woman, rather than a coy ingénue. No tired, contraining scripts, let's just be ourselves and discover our unique chemistry. If you are are looking for conversation, affection and companionship alongside eroticism and sexual attraction then you're in the right place.
I revel in the freedom that the client/provider dynamic brings to our encounters, the release from the commitment of outside roles, responsibilities and traditional expectations. When entered into with a spirit of honesty, respect and kindness, I feel that it can be an incredibly enriching, even transformative experience. I value these evolving unique relationships, and feel grateful that they are part of my life.
I am a sensual person, I love touch, intimacy, affection, and I absolutely adore kissing, it is an indispensable part of sexuality for me. My bottom line is mutual enjoyment, genuine mutual enjoyment. We are all individuals with different desires and arousals, and I approach each meeting with this in mind. The mind and body are inextricably linked, and I enjoy getting to know who someone is, what they enjoy and why, and creating a safe space where we can unwind and be truly in the moment.
I want to learn how to make you happy, and I want to help you understand how to make me happy, and then may an enjoyable collaboration commence.
I do not have a "menu", I am probably not best suited to anyone fixated on acronyms, I think so much sexual compatibility comes down to personal chemistry and should be spontaneously explored together as it unfolds organically.
I am interested in Tantra and currently practise it in my private life. I also have several years’ experience with massage training, this is a personal favourite, and I love the feeling of skin on skin. I also have knowledge of Lingam and Yoni massage, and can both perform and teach the basics to you. I have found Tantra and Lingam to be very helpful with anyone suffering from any sexual related anxiety. Please note that if you would like to explore this, Tantra is not a set of tricks or technique that can be reeled off in an hour, so much of it is learning to be present and focused, and it takes time to develop. I do not consider myself an expert by any means, despite studying and practising for quite some time but do not wish to reduce something with such a vast cultural and spiritual history to merely a tool for better orgasms (which really is its antithesis).
I adore meeting couples, however it is important to me that this is an experience that is being undertaken with enthusiasm from all parties. I also meet women alone you would like to explore one on one first (or you just to indulge yourself.)
I do not discriminate based ethnicity, disability, gender, weight, nationality etc. As a rough guide, I do prefer to meet people over the age of 30, however I have had positive experiences with younger clients who felt they lacked experience or confidence, so it is something I will consider. Please note, I do not ever see anyone younger than 25.