"Sex is emotion in motion" Mae West
There are a lot of acronyms bandied about in relation to companionship, and besides the fact that they seem to mean different things to whoever uses them, they seem to be changing over time. I think GFE has become quite a convoluted term these days, but for me, I use it to mean that I am a sensual person, I love touch, I love intimacy, and I love affection, and I absolutely LOVE kissing, it is an indispensable part of sexuality for me. I want this to always be part of the experience.
I enjoy getting to know somebody, beginning to understand them, knowing that we are on the same wavelength and looking for the same things within each other. Feeling the build up of attraction and anticipation of what lies ahead is exciting to me. I want to genuinely enjoy and be present in our time together. I don’t like to rush, feel like I’m in a hurry, or playing a persona. I think sex is something to be savoured.
The bottom line for me is mutual enjoyment, genuine mutual enjoyment. We are all individuals with different desires and things that arouse us, and so I approach each meeting with this in mind. I want to learn how to make you happy, and I want to help you understand how to make me happy, and then may an enjoyable collaboration commence. I want us to have fun together, to feel comfortable, open, and free to just explore and enjoy our time together without any worries about commitment or outside responsibility.
I am interested in Tantra and currently practise it in my private life. I also have several years experience with massage training, this is a personal favourite, I love the feeling of skin on skin. I also have knowledge of Lingam and Yoni massage, and can both perform and teach the basics to you. I have found Tantra and Lingam to be very helpful with anyone suffering from any sexual related anxiety. It is well known to be beneficial for issues with premature ejaculation, erectile dysfunction and inability to reach orgasm. I have seen significant improvement in people who I have treated this way. Please note that if you would like to explore this, Tantra is not a set of tricks or technique that can be rattled off in an hour for increased gratification, it is also a perspective and mindset and is not a quick fix, and I do not consider myself an expert by any means, despite studying and practising for quite some time. That said if you are curious then I am always happy to share, just know that it is a very deep area of study, and involves a lot of patience, and unlearning as well as learning, not something that can be quickly summarised.
I don’t discriminate based on any ethnicity, disability, weight, nationality etc. I do prefer to meet people aged 35 and above, however I have had positive experiences with younger clients who felt they lacked experience or confidence, so it is something I will consider at my discretion. Please note I do not see anyone younger than 27.