perspective on style
As an independent escort, I’ve noticed that many clients expect a certain level of glamour and extravagance from me. However, I prefer to keep things simple, modern and elegant when it comes to my wardrobe and appearance. I've always been a low key dresser, preferring a more natural look with little makeup and a minimalist, chic style.
For me, it's about feeling comfortable and confident in my own skin. When I wear a lot of makeup and revealing clothing, I feel like I'm putting on a mask, and it takes away from my sense of self. I want my clients to see the real me, not some persona that I've created.
Of course, there are times when I dress up more than usual, but even then, I keep it understated. I might wear a little more makeup or a slightly more revealing outfit, but it's always in keeping with my personal style.
Another reason why I'm a low key dresser is that it saves me time and money. I don't have to spend hours getting ready for a booking, and I don't have to buy expensive clothing or makeup. Instead, I can focus on other things that are important to me, like my health, my relationships, and building financial security.
But my personal style isn’t just about practicality. I find that a modern, elegant wardrobe allows me to exude a quiet confidence that can be just as alluring as more flashy styles. It also reflects my personality and values - I value simplicity, authenticity and being true to myself, and my wardrobe reflects that.
I also believe that having a low key style makes me more approachable to my clients. As I appear more discreet, they don't feel self consious by our appearance, and they're more likely to relax, open up to me and share their thoughts and feelings. It's easier to build a connection with someone when you're not putting up a facade.
In an industry where appearance is often overemphasised, being a low key dresser is my way of pushing back against the pressure to always look perfect. It allows me to focus on what’s truly important - my clients, my work, and my own well-being.
To wrap it up, sticking to my personal style works for me, both personally and professionally. It allows me to be comfortable and confident in my own skin, saves me time and money, and makes me more approachable to my clients. While some may expect escorts to dress a certain way, it's important to remember that we're all individuals with our own unique styles and preferences, not dolls for hire.
This is a blog post written by an Independent escort in London. I am a high class mature escort. Writing about some of the pitfalls I encounted and what I want to do in the future in order to avoid falling into the same patterns.