Authenticity Has Gravity
Eroticism isn’t volume; it’s attention. And attention shapes everything.
Hello, I’m Sadie. We can call this the introduction, but I prefer conversations to summaries…
So the irony of talking about intimacy through a screen isn't totally lost on me, but this is the world we're now in. Honestly, I’m not here to perform a flawless ideal, instead I'd rather give you a sense of the person behind these words, someone who is; layered, curious, always learning, and very present. I’d like for this to be an invitation, rather than a pitch.
I think authenticity has its own type of gravity; as it draws the right people closer, and the rest drift away. I value depth over breadth, and I'd rather resonance over numbers, so I see only a small circle of people. I know myself and what I can realistically give, and for me to be present I require space. Maybe I’m being too frank, but I know I can't and won’t be for everyone, as much like art, intimacy and attraction land differently depending on who’s looking. I’ve decided I’d much rather be remembered for having a spark of truth than constantly admired for a flawless mask.
People often tell me thay meeting me feels much like reading me, the warmth, intuition, and groundedness seem to translate. That matters, because if something about my words draws you in, the connection starts before we ever even share the same room.
I am unapologetically very much a woman, not a girl. I feel comfortable with myself, and if given the choice, I’d rather be the woman I am today than lose a few lines in exchange for years of experience. I wear little makeup, my hair falls as it wishes, and I always smell good, Orphéon perhaps, or something equally warm and subtle, that you’ll need to get close to catch. I’m tactile by nature, I enjoy feeling the press of our knees beneath a table, and I may instinctively reach for your hair mid conversation. This isn’t some move, it’s more the way I settle in with someone I feel safe with, I do it with friends too, so you’re in great company. I dress the way I think; relaxed, intuitive, and not trying to present anyway that I’m not. I appreciate textures and craftsmanship rather than blindly going for a label. I look feminine, low key, and a little lived-in rather than glossy glamour, as to me discretion is something to be valued.
This work isn’t something I switch on. It comes out of habits I’ve had for years: openness, attentiveness, a fascination with the quirkiest parts of human behaviour. I’ve studied and worked in fields that required me to pay close attention, be it to people’s gestures, hesitations, needs. People usually arrive as their “public self”, but I’m more interested in the person who appears once we’ve both relaxed. I’ve met people who are world-class at what they do professionally, but still crave a moment where they don’t have to be performing.
I’m not offering therapy (I won’t be giving advice over oysters) but I will bring that attentiveness and care. Whether you’re in finance or philosophy, I care less about what you do and more about how you are.
Nearly everyone arrives carrying something: expectation, hesitation, or self-consiousness. I want to create space, not pressure. If any vulnerability arises, I meet it with gentleness, not judgment.
My physicality is responsive, sensual, and unhurried. I like when an encounter grows in its own direction, when we find things by accident rather than choreography.
In my own life I’ve spent time learning how breath and patience can change the way pleasure moves, not just in a spiritual way, but a simple understanding that things feel different when you don’t grab at them. If you’re curious, and if we have the trust for it, I’m happy to explore together; it can help people who find intimacy anxiety-making at times.
I enjoy encounters that expand beyond the usual duet; meeting couples, or connecting with fellow providers, always with enthusiasm and trust at the centre. I’m not wholly vanilla; a brush of dominance and submission can be fun, but only when the pacing and safety feel right.
I welcome diversity: of ethnicity, gender, ability, profession, neurotype, body, nationality. Most of those I meet are over 35, though what matters most is self-awareness and maturity of spirit. Under 25, however, is not for me.
This work matters to me, but it’s only a small part of who I am. I live a quiet, private life, and I protect it with the same care I offer to those who meet me here. Boundaries don’t get in the way of intimacy, they’re often the thing that lets it happen at all.
I grew up in a small town in Ireland, but have since lived in many places, from Shanghai to San Francisco. In China I managed to pick up enough Mandarin to make taxi drivers smile (or laugh) which began a long standing love/hate affair with learning it (I’m still awful). Travel taught me that patience will often take you further than your pride, the importance of the ability to adapt your pace to your surroundings, how to get comfortable with discomfort, and that being street smart is an indispensible quality to have in life. But maybe the most transformative thing was discovering that even the most mundane details can be interesting if you take time to really stop and notice them. I’ve never been big on convention (obviously), but I can say I’m no longer chasing rebellion either. I just try to do what feels right, and that tends to mean keeping myself steady, curious, and staying (or at least trying to be) amused at what life throws my way.
Socially, I can be both the quiet listener and animated orator. I like it when conversations gather their own momentum, when we suddenly realise we’ve veered off into something totally unrelated to where we began. I ask lots of questions when something/someone interests me; I want to know the song that gets you in the gut, the dish that reminds you of childhood, your weirdest crush, or the one memory you’d keep if you ever had to choose. A meal is a lovely way to begin. London has more good restaurants than I can keep up with, but I keep a list of trusty favourites plus a few I’m saving for the right time.
I’m not interested in cool. I like warmth, wit, openness, intelligence that isn’t afraid to say, “I don’t know.” I don’t care what you do; finance, academia, aviation, only that you bring your mind with you. My long-standing clients often say our time feels unlike anything else: intimate, real, and unique to us. What I offer is warmth, depth, and that exquisite charge of anticipation. I believe that intimacy, even when compensated, can still feel like a break from everything else we usually have to be, a pause in the relentless performance of the public self. It's a moment when time stops mattering, ego slips away, and all that remains is the vivid fact of being alive, together.
Finally, this work is only one facet of who I am. What stays private gives weight to what I choose to share, but beyond that, I’m kept interesting by those close to me, and interested by the books piled like unfinished conversations, films that linger long after the credits, fragments scrawled in notebooks that Didion might have recognised: oddities, obscure facts, overheard phrases, half-thoughts too fragile for daylight. I take outdoor swims, even when they take my breath, collect pebbles (don’t tease, it was good enough for Jim Ede), wander galleries, catch live music, and cook recipes from cuisines I’ve never tried before.
If something here has caught your eye, like a glint you can’t ignore, then write to me mentioning "Magpie", and I’ll know you’ve read carefully. I’ll know we’re already speaking the same language.
Frequently Asked Questions
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Respectful, smart and a good communicator, although I do have a soft spot for shy men. Emotional intelligence is very sexy, and being clean and smelling good. As for turn offs, entitlement is a big one, arrogance, gossiping about other providers, and being rude to service people.
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Age: Late 30s (very late)
Height: 172cm, 5'7.5" (The half is important!)
Complexion: Freckled and frequently rather tanned (I am a rare Irish person who seems to contain a decent amount of melanin), golden blonde hair, blue eyes
Physique: Slim but curvy, 38-28-38, a true hourglass
Best feature: I am often told my eyes, or my butt!
Worst feature: My feet! I run a lot and it unfortunatley has taken a toll
Smoke?: No, but I've recently become a fan of the occasional cigar
Fave cuisine: I couldn't choose—I like variety, and I am a very adventurous eater
Fave drinks: Champagne (I know, boring, but I do love Krug and Dom), a well aged bordeaux or a bold barolo, and of course a well-made martini
Fave colours: Black, white, grey, dark red if I'm feeling wild
Favourite smells: The sea, tobacco, the holy trinity of frying garlic, ginger and onions, vetiver, lavender, leather.
Fave flowers: Aquilegia, peonies, Anemone, Canterbury Bells. wildflowers
Favourite lingerie: Bordelle(💖), Herve by Celine Marie, Tatu Couture, Maison Close.
Turn-ons: Gentle, sensual hands, good kissers, intelligence, beautiful doe eyed brunettes
Dream date: Take me to the beach"! I am a water baby and happiest when I can hear/smell the ocean. Early morning swims energise me and send my libido through the roof. After that, I would say a weekend escape to the country. I love a good hike (or just a ramble), a good meal and a great f*** in a good bed.
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Of course not, just bring your lovely self! They are honestly never expected. However, I know there are people out there that find enjoyment in gifting, so you can find my wishtender here for some ideas: throne.com/sadieoshea
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So am I! This is why I am selective with who I meet, I need to be. I need to get an idea of who you are and what you are about before we can meet, so I can feel comfortable and secure. Like most sex workers I take my sexual health very seriously and I am very well informed on safe sex practices. I also visit a clinic every 6 weeks at a minimum for a full sexual health screening. I have also been fully vaccinated against Hep B. I have never contracted a STD (although there's no shame in that) and want to try and continue to keep myself as safe as possible. So I ask that you respect this and not be offended at any precautions I feel I need to take to protect myself. Any requests or attempts at unprotected genital contact will mean we will never meet again. Any pressure, requests or attempts (however light-hearted or jokey) to do anything I have informed you I do not wish to do will result in the end of our meeting. You may not see yourself as having any bad intentions, but it corrodes my trust in your ability to respect my boundaries and wellbeing, so to prevent possible escalation I have a zero tolerance policy in regards to this.
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Yes, all information is sent to an encrypted email account with a veeeery long unique password and 2FA, and is not listed anywhere online, if the password is changed all emails are deleted. I would advise you to send it via protonmail for extra security on your end. I have been working for a long time and have not had any breaches, plus I have a good name to protect, any breach of client info would be the end of that. Also, I care about you, I often imagine how I would feel to be doxxed, and I would hate for anyone to experience that. I ask for this information for my safety, I need to know who I am actually meeting in case of violence. Once we have met your information will be deleted.
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During my free time, I enjoy traveling and exploring London—it's food, art, music, and theaters. I'm pretty good now at knowing all the best places, and the quiet corners, so if you are visiting and need a guide, I've got you covered. Along with these pursuits I also try to challenge myself; currently by learning Mandarin (太难了), cooking a recipe from a new cuisine (recently Sichuan and Bhutanese) tending to my garden (my lockdown sanity saviour!) swimming, sometime outside, the colder the better, a habit initially instilled in me from my upbringing by the north coast, nothing releases you like total submersion in cold water, that or running until my lungs burn and legs turn to jelly. I also watch a huge amount of films (my Letterboxd is linked in this sites footer if you're interested) from all over the world when I've a spare few hours, I love an independent cinema.
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When I meet clients, I want to present myself in a way that is simple yet sophisticated, with clothing and accessories that enhance my looks whilst still being discreet. I want to dress so I blend in like any other elegant woman with a sense of style in London who is going on a date.
Of course, I will always dress to fit a certain occasion, but ultimately I feel that being able to express myself through my clothing is an important part of being authentic and feel like myself, which in turn allows me to be more present and engaged with my clients, as I don't want to feel I am in uniform. However, lingerie is a different story, feel free to request anything you've seen me in, and I if you'd like to send a voucher for me to buy something that is ok too.
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No, the best I could do is 24 hours but that is pretty unlikely, you can try though!
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Of course! I'm honoured you feel you could trust me! I don't want to invalidate what obviously is stigmatised by some, but this really isn't a big deal to me, I will not be judging you based on your bedroom skills (nor your appearance, penis size/shape, stamina etc.) Also, more partners ≠ better in bed. The best lovers understand everyone is unique in their sexual response and that open communication and being receptive to feedback should be the base of every experience with a new sexual partner. I have seen virgins before and if they hadn't told me, I never would have guessed.
