Some tips and information to ensure everything runs smoothly:
As Covid has further restricted my availability, I need to safeguard against cancellations. Therefore a deposit will now be required to secure all appointments, even if I have met you many times before. Deposits are non refundable, however they can be put towards another date within 3 months as long as you give at least 72 hours notice.
If for some unavoidable reason I need to cancel, I will refund any deposit in full and will make you first priority with regards to my time if you would like to rearrange, or I can help you find another provider. If I cancel without 72 hours notice I will add extra time to our next meeting.
I screen all potential clients for safety and compatibility. I am very careful about who I spend time with, as I would hope you are too. I only consider thoughtful, courteous enquiries who respect and support my need to feel safe and secure.
I will contact you a few days before we are due to meet, please get back to me to confirm at the very latest the evening before the booking. If I do not hear from you by then, I may assume a no show and make other plans.
Please can you have the fee ready and present it at the beginning of our meeting. I always like to take care of this straight away, no matter how well we know each other! Please don't make me have to prompt you. If we are meeting in public please place it inside a card in a gift bag, book or file (and pass it to me discreetly). You may also pay a portion (or in full) by bank transfer in advance if you wish (if pre-agreed).
A huge turn off for me is bad hygiene and/or breath. I will have meticulously showered before meeting you (and will freshen up upon arrival) so I ask you to please do the same. Both of us being freshly showered with minty fresh breath means we avoid the awkward event of me having to mention there is a problem (which I will), and it just wastes time and ruins the mood when we we could be spending it much more productively.
I take my privacy and discretion very seriously, just as I will take yours. Due to the rise in secret recording, I will be looking out for hidden cameras and I have a GPS/LED detector that I bring to all appointments, I may ask for electronics/smart watches to be put away. I do not like doing this, and understand it may feel insulting but it is something that I can not risk happening, so please respect my need to do what is necessary in order to feel safe. I am happy for you to do the same at my incall.
As of 8th Jan 2020, I have a no review policy, I do not wish to feature on review sites. I will write a blog post soon about my reasons, but I am unhappy with one in particular which has threatened providers with the release of their personal details when they asked to de-list, others are hotbeds of misogyny, abuse (e.g. tips on secret filming, sharing footage) and frequently exaggerated, derogatory, or written for revenge/money. I can no longer in good conscience support them. However I welcome feedback and if you would like to write me a testimonial I would love that, please email it to me and I will add it to my testimonial page (if you don't mind).
I know that might seem like a lot of information and rules to follow but it is just what I have in place to ensure my safety, sanity and so I can manage my time efficiently without jeopardising the other areas of my life unnecessarily. Being upfront about my boundaries helps me stay happy, relaxed and ready to devote my energy and affection on you.