London independent escort

A. Someone light hearted, kind and considerate.  Good communication skills are a bonus, and also the ability to exchange feedback well. Getting to know a new person often involves ironing out a few kinks through honest communication, just as I also want you to feel you can approach me openly with any requests, I would like to be able to do the same, so we can enjoy each others company and really get to know each other. Also, I really dislike entitlement, I respect your time, privacy and the fact you have a life, and expect you to do the same.

People who are unable to communicate with me respectfully. It is extremely important to me that you treat me with respect and see me as a human being and an equal. I do not discriminate against anyone for their ethnicity, nationality, weight, looks, ability etc. I am more interested in your demeanour, how well we can converse, and if we share similar values. I also do not wish to meet anyone racist, homophobic or otherwise intentionally discriminatory to those that are different to them. I prefer to see clients that are at least in their early thirties, but I have had a few great experiences with people younger than this who felt inexperienced, so if this is the case please contact me and we can see if we might get along. There is no upper age limit, I love older gentlemen.

Firstly, that is extremely kind of you. Gifts are never expected, but if you really would like to bring something I'm not going to say no! I often list things I have my eye on in my wishlist. Although I love to read, I would prefer one of the coursebooks on my wishlist or cookbooks (as I have an enormous tsundoku, and even larger course reading list to get through), I also love silver needle tea, Buckwheat tea and good quality Matcha, and excellent olive oils. I always appriciate vouchers towards my Manadain lessons (I use ITalki!) Gift cards for Sezane, Rouje, Selfridges or lingerie (AP, Studio Pia) also make me happy. 

So am I! This is why I am selective with who I meet, I need to be. I need to get an idea of who you are and what you are about before we can meet, so I can feel comfortable and secure. Like most sex workers (despite what many people seem to think) I take my sexual health very seriously and I am very well informed on safe sex practices. I also visit a clinic every 6 weeks at a minimum for a full sexual health screening. I have also been fully vaccinated against Hep B. I have never contracted a STD (although I don't think there is any shame in that) and want to try and continue to keep myself as safe as possible. So I ask that you respect this and not be offended at any precautions I feel I need to take to protect myself. Any requests or attempts at unprotected genital contact will mean we will never meet again. Any pressure, requests or attempts (however light-hearted or jokey) to do anything I have informed you I do not wish to do will result in the end of our meeting. You may not see yourself as having any bad intentions, but it corrodes my trust in your ability to respect my boundaries and wellbeing, so to prevent possible escalation I have a zero tolerance policy in regards to this. It may seem a little harsh, but stealthing is unfortunately becoming increasingly prevalent. I myself have had personal experience of this by a client I had known for a long time time and completely trusted. Having to wait up to 3 months for your test results (HIV & Syphilis can take this long to show up) is very distressing, not to mention to the emotional hurt of being violated like that, so don't make this about you. 

I also will check for hidden cameras and will request electronics be put away. It is illegal to do that in this country and I will fully seek prosecution of anyone who attempts to undertake this.

As a standard, I like to dress in a discreet, understated manner. I will not dress in any way that could allude to me being a sex worker, and this doesn't just mean short skirts and thigh high boots! The reasons for this are: number one, I feel like I am constantly saying this, but discretion is very important to me too and I do not wish for anyone to have suspicions about the basis of our meeting, London is a pretty casual city, even in the most upmarket venues, I do not wish to attract attention, I want to blend in. Secondly, I have quite a mininmalist style, I enjoy high quality tailoring but clothes aren't super important to me, I loathe shopping, and would rather spend a lot of money on a few items I will get a lot of wear out of, so i've no interest in spending on stuff that will sit in my closet (and I don't even like) it feels wasteful, and I would rather avoid clients who are too invested in my clothes over who I am and how we connect. Lastly, and most importantly, I want to feel comfortable and like myself when we meet, not like I am dressing in some kind of uniform or costume, I find that seriously impacts my ability to engage with clients in a natural, authentic way as I feel like I am playing a role (and not in a fun way.)

Don't worry, I take care of myself and like to spend time on my appearance, I am told I am quite stylish. I will never be scruffy or unkempt, just dressed in a way that makes me feel like myself. I wrote a blog post about this that is more in-depth. 

At the moment, no. I do understand that sometimes it is hard to plan and you just have to grab the time when it unexpectedly comes up, but currently my availability is pretty limited, so I normally need at least two days notice. Though feel free to try me (especially if we have met before). If things ease up for me in the future this might change. So watch this space.

Yes, within reason. If we met once or twice several years ago please use somebody more recent. I won't feel comfortable vouching for you when that much time has passed. If we know each other well I would be more than happy to, please let me know someone will be contacting me and ask them to use my contact form rather than share my email.